A person checks every account
Before you can see anyone, and before anyone can see you, a person looks at your selfie and your main photo. It's free, it's never sold as a badge, and the selfie is deleted once the decision is made.
T4T dating app
Dating, trans for trans.
T4TSpace is a dating app made for trans and non-binary people who want to meet each other. It's open now, in your browser, in seven languages.
- A person checks every account
- Nothing is charged today
- Your exact location is never stored
The number of people near you is shown as it is, never padded.
Interface preview. These are design mock-ups, not real members.
0profiles indexed by search engines. Ever.
24hmaximum before a report is read and acted on by a person
250 mthe closest your position is ever stored. Distances are measured from a one-kilometre cell, not from your point.
7languages: English, German, Polish, French, Spanish, Portuguese and Italian
The whole idea
T4T
Every other app was built for someone else.
Open any mainstream dating app as a trans person and you meet the same thing: people who see a category, not a person. Fetishisation dressed up as interest. The endless work of being someone's first.
T4TSpace is built the other way round: for trans people meeting each other, on purpose, with nothing designed to sell access to us. If you're not trans, this isn't your app, and there's no tier or setting that turns it into one.
What's different
Verified
Commitments
Free
Private
Yours
Honest
Built around the parts that actually matter.
Three commitments against chasers
Everyone who signs up agrees, one switch at a time, not to ask about bodies or surgeries, not to ask for a name someone no longer uses, and to meet a person rather than a category. Treating someone as a category gets an account removed, not warned.
Nothing is charged today
The prices are already published, and they will never apply to messages, blocking, reporting or verification. The first 1000 verified accounts keep everything free for as long as they stay active.
Your location stays vague
Your exact position is never stored. The point we keep is offset by up to 250 metres, distances are measured from a one-kilometre cell, and there's no map that could give your street away.
Your gender, in your words
Gender is a text field, not a dropdown. Your pronouns, your orientation and your transition each have their own visibility: everyone, your matches, or nobody.
Real numbers, seven languages
The app shows how many people are actually near you, even when it's four. It works in English, German, Polish, French, Spanish, Portuguese and Italian, in any browser, and native apps are being built.
Who can join
Made for trans and non-binary people. Nobody's gender is checked.
T4TSpace is for trans and non-binary people aged 18 and over who want to meet each other, whether for dating, a relationship or friendship. We never check anyone's gender: nobody here has to prove they're trans, and nobody's identity is up for debate.
Verification checks something else: that you're a real person, that your selfie and your main photo show the same person, and that you're an adult. You also confirm you're 18 or over when you sign up.
That means we can't promise that everyone here is trans, and we won't pretend to. What holds this space together is the rule itself, the three commitments everyone agrees to, and reports read by a person within 24 hours: an account reported for chaser behaviour or for fetishising people is removed if the report holds.
Safety, specifically
The risks here aren't hypothetical.
Being visible online carries a different weight when you're trans. We build for that, and we say plainly what we do.
- No profile is ever indexed. Search engines never see you.
- Blocking is instant and total. No ghost profile, no reappearing next week.
- Reports are read by people, within a day. Not queued into a backlog.
- Delete means delete. One tap removes your account and your data for good.
Before you choose
Compare the apps, then decide.
We build one of them, so every claim about the others comes from their own pages, with the date we last checked them.
Start hereBest trans dating apps: Taimi, HER, Butterfly comparedAll six side by side: who each app is for, how it checks accounts, what costs money and where it runs.One page per app
TaimiA large LGBTQ+ app open to every gender and sexuality, with optional photo verification and a free stealth mode.HERA dating and community app built first for queer women, which names trans women and trans men and bans chasers in its rules.ButterflyBuilt around dating trans people but open to any gender, with face-free photos, approximate location and messages that expire.TranslrBuilt for trans people and the people who admire them, and the only one of these five that publishes a moderation deadline.FiorryBuilt for trans and gender-diverse people and their allies, with photo verification required and a free T4T space.
Depending on who you are
The best dating app for trans women: admission policy decides itFive apps, read for the one thing that shapes a trans woman's inbox more than any feature list: who the app lets in.The best dating app for trans men: most of these were not built for youAn honest answer to a question with a short list: trans dating apps are largely built around trans women, and it shows.Best dating apps for non-binary people: check who they think you areMost dating apps still ask you to pick a box before they show you anyone. What to check, and how the five main apps describe who they are for.Free trans dating apps: what free actually buys youEvery app here is free to install. The question worth asking is whether anything that protects you sits behind the paywall.T4T dating: what it means, and where it actually happensTrans people dating trans people, on purpose. What that looks like in practice, and why a tag on a general app is not the same thing.
Plainly
What this isn't.
Saying what we've left out is more useful than another list of features.
- Not a hookup feed. Some people will want that, and that's fine. It just isn't what the app is shaped around.
- Not made for admirers. There's no tier, no setting and no paid option built for cis people looking for trans people.
- Not a place that decides who counts as trans enough. You tell us who you are. Verification checks that you're real, not that you qualify.
- Not free-and-then-hostile. No manufactured scarcity, no paywalling the message you already received.
Questions
The things people actually ask.
Who can join T4TSpace?
Trans and non-binary people aged 18 and over who want to meet each other, whether for dating, a relationship or friendship. If you're not trans, this isn't your app, and there's no tier that changes that. Nobody's gender is checked: you tell us who you are.
Do you check that people are trans?
No, and we never will. Nobody here has to prove anything about their gender, their body, their documents or their transition. That also means we can't promise that every account belongs to a trans person. What we do: everyone agrees to three commitments when they sign up, and an account reported for chaser behaviour or for fetishising people is looked at by a person within 24 hours and removed if the report holds.
How does verification work?
You add a main photo that shows your face, then take a selfie. A person, not an algorithm, checks that the selfie shows a real person, that both photos show the same person, and that you're an adult. It's free. Until it's done you can't see anyone and nobody can see you, and the account also needs a confirmed email address. The selfie is deleted once the decision is made, and within seven days at most. More on verification.
Is T4TSpace free?
Nothing is charged today. The prices are already published on the pricing page: three rates that buy exactly the same thing, and you pick yours without proof. The first 1000 verified accounts keep everything free for as long as the account stays active. Reading and answering messages, blocking, reporting, verification, and search and matching are always free, whether you pay or not.
Is it safe?
Safety here means specific things you can check: a person looks at every account before it can see anyone, profiles never appear in search engines, your exact position is never stored, blocking is instant and mutual, and reports are decided by a person within 24 hours. No app can make meeting a stranger risk-free, and we won't claim otherwise. How we handle safety.
Is there an app for iPhone or Android?
Not in the stores yet. T4TSpace runs in any browser at t4tspace.com/app, and you can add it to your home screen so it opens like an app. Native apps for iOS and Android are being built, and the links will be on the download page once they're in the stores.
Is it available where I live?
The app is open everywhere, right now, in your browser. What changes from place to place is how many people are near you, and the app tells you that number on your first screen rather than letting you find out later.
Will my profile show up on Google?
No. Every profile carries noindex directives in the page and in the HTTP response. Search engines never see you, and it isn't a setting you have to find and switch on.
What happens if I delete my account?
It's deleted. Not flagged, not archived, not kept for analytics. The encrypted backups made before that are erased for good within about forty days at most.
Open now
It's live.
No waiting list. Make a profile, get checked by a person, then see who's nearby and decide for yourself whether there are enough people around to be worth your time: we show you the real number, not a padded one.
