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Community guidelines

What's expected here, and what gets you removed.


Short version: this space is made for trans people, everyone here is a person, and the second part matters as much as the first.

What's expected

Take people at their word about who they are. Ask before assuming anything about someone's body or history. Accept a no the first time. Keep what's shared with you private.

Photos

Your main photo shows your face: a recent, sharp photo with only you in it, your face uncovered. People here see each other, and everyone who can see that photo is a verified member. It is compared with your verification selfie to recognise the same person, never to judge how you look.

Your profile photos are seen by people who did not choose to see them. Nothing explicit on a profile: no genitals, no sex acts.

This is not a rule about trans bodies. A chest, a scar, a body shown by the person it belongs to is not the same thing, and we are not going to police that. What has no place here is explicit content, and imposing it on someone.

An explicit photo on a profile is taken down and you are told why. Sending one to someone who did not ask for it is harassment, and it costs the account.

What gets you removed

Treating someone as a category rather than a person. Asking for someone's deadname or pre-transition photos. Screenshotting or sharing profiles outside the app. Harassment after a block. Any attempt to out someone, anywhere. Sending someone an explicit image they did not ask for.

These result in removal, not a warning. The cost of getting this wrong falls on the person being harmed.

What is never allowed

Some things are not a matter of community norms. They are crimes, or they cause harm that no explanation repairs. An account is removed immediately and permanently, and where the law requires it, the case is reported to the authorities.

Child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE) of any kind: child sexual abuse material (CSAM), any sexual content involving a minor, solicitation, grooming, sextortion, or any attempt to contact a minor. T4TSpace is for adults only. This is reported without exception.

Intimate or sexual content involving any person without that person's consent, whatever their age. Creating, requesting, sharing or distributing it is prohibited for everyone on T4TSpace. This includes non-consensual intimate images: a photo or video shared without the agreement of the person in it, recorded without their knowledge, or altered or generated to show a real person in a sexual way. The rule applies even if the person once agreed to the image being taken, and even if it was sent to you privately. Threatening to share such content is prohibited too.

Sexual violence, or the threat of it.

Human trafficking, sex trafficking, and any form of sexual exploitation, including advertising commercial sexual services.

Sexually explicit content on a profile: no genitals, no sex acts.

Scams and fraud, including pretending to be someone you are not in order to obtain money, gifts, or financial information.

Reports of any of these go to the front of the queue.

Reporting

Every profile and message has a report option. Reports reach a person and get a decision within 24 hours, and you're told the outcome.

For trans and non-binary people. A person checks every account.The first 1000 verified accounts keep everything free.

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